Hope my story encourages you that there is ALWAYS hope. There are always reasons why people are the way they are. AND we can be first to break the cycle. Here's my mother wound and how its finally healed now.
Get an antacid before the surgery! Wear a tummy tucking belt. Go for walks. Sip on warm water. Consume hot and soft foods for the first 40 days. Take your painkillers on time. Continue to take your prenatal vitamins. Listen to your body and your intuitions